My niece is with me right now since she is having problems with her marriage. She is one young and confused girl. I told her to just move on with her life. She should go find some work so can forget all her troubles and worries. Her husband has all the vices in the world. Name it he has it.
We went to Menmen's house last Sunday because I wanted her to advice my niece on what to do. She got a friend who has the same situation like her. We all exchanged ideas. My husband was our designated driver. Menmen served us some bico and some beef. Then we had filipino ice cream for dessert. Thank you men for the nice treat. I noticed that she had a vegetable garden in the backyard. She showed us her tomatoes pepper, squash, ampalaya and a lot others. she has a green thumb because I noticed her plants were really growing well. I think that's why I like her a lot because I love gardening too.
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Tuesday, June 9, 2009
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Is it just an LQ?
My niece called me up yesterday and told me that she wanted to get out of California. She got married and have lived there for over a year now. Her relationship has been going up and down. Life has treated her rather rough but she has stretched her patience the best way she can. On my point of view, no matter what angle I look upon, it is not really easy. I pity her. She is like a daughter to me. She is still in her early twenty's and her husband is twice her age but she is the one adjusting most in the relationship. Love is a two-way process ad she did not feel it to be that way. I told her that she would be welcome to be with me. I have not pushed her to go away from her husband because it is always her choice. As she has been telling me she seemed to be abused and was not treated as a wife fairly. Who else will rescue her when she have no other family here? Nobody deserves to be mistreated no matter how far you are from your family. Sadly some people take advantage of this situation. I don't think this as just a plain lover's quarrel anymore.
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